Becoming Still through the Season

Becoming Still through the Season

by Rachelle Niemann
Here we are again, another spring equinox upon us in the northern hemisphere. Our world continues to change in new ways every day. I’m grateful that each change of the season offers a chance to pause and evaluate my thoughts, feelings, and my behaviors. Especially spring, when the light and dark are coming into balance, and there is an essence of renewal in the air.

This year, I think I’m going to take a bit longer pause than just a few moments on the equinox. I’m feeling like a longer pause is necessary to really catch my breath and find enough stillness that will stay present with me even as the world around me continues to change at this rapid pace. I’m leaning into the idea that spring lasts for three months, and plants take time to emerge and become. They create their stable and healthy state before producing their fruits. I can really use a longer pause to recognize and breathe into what is and become still and stable there so that I can leap forward into the next season or thing or moment.

I have found myself (and heard many others) trying to hold onto the past while also waiting for the future to arrive. When we are always in this state of desiring to have something back and trying to anticipate or wait for the future to arrive, we miss the present moment. We miss noticing our experience, who we are, and identifying if we are showing up how we want to be.

This spring, I invite you to take some time to pause and reflect with me. We’ve all experienced grief and loss throughout this pandemic, and it has also provided the opportunity for us to rethink and evaluate our values, our identity, and our behaviors. Pause and notice if you are in alignment with your values. Maybe even evaluate if your values are still aligned with your present state. Change and transition are inevitable, and this includes who we want to be and how we want to show up in the world. Try letting go of your perceived “normal” to engage with the reality of the present. Shed what no longer serves you. Plant the seeds of new beginnings, feed and nurture them, and allow time for them to germinate, grow, and flourish. It’s time to align with calmness and inner peace so that we can endure and adapt with the rapid pace of change happening outside our control.

Pause, breathe, become still, really still, and notice what’s there.

From rachelleniemann.com/blog

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling by Florence Moyer

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling by Florence Moyer

a page from my journal working through “my people” – my ideal clients” right: my client B4
(scroll to the bottom of this article to see a younger me explaining why i love visual journaling)

“Years ago I was deep into my practice of Visual Journaling – personally, and professionally.
In addition to using my journal to work through personal and business ideas, issues and thoughts, i was designing journals for others, including a journal for all the coaches attending Martha Beck’s Coaches’ conferences.”

 

I first learned of visual journaling from Lisa Sonora – from whom I took my first ever online course.  Her work in the book THE CREATIVE ENTREPRENEUR and visual journaling was the inspiration for the direction I’ve taken my private coaching practice and group work with entrepreneurs and creatives.

Flash forward.  Covid. Uprisings. Life gets in the way.  My personal practice of journaling is set aside.

But lately I’ve been feeling the call of creativity.  And then the idea of visual journaling started to pop back up here and there … I need to pay attention.

👈🏻 is a photo of the journal I designed for the 2010 conference. The one pictured here is well loved and I received many kudos for this little book… I used mine to capture my thoughts and ideas as well. 👇🏻

 

 

One of the emails I received post-conference was from sister coach, Florence Moyer.  It said

I’m having a blast with my visual journal and I just posted on my blog about some of the things I’m learning from it. Hope you enjoy it and that I’m representing your ideas well.
– Flo

Her post did indeed represent my ideas well, which were Lisa’s ideas.

(Oh, and by the way, it was inn 2010 at Lisa Sonora‘s creativity retreat in Mexico that joy and I first met! We’ve never been in the same physical space again, but a life time friendship and partnership was formed! All around visual journaling)

Without Further Ado, Here’s Flo’s Blog Post from August of 2010

Playing with Art Supplies:
Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling

By Florence Moyer

I’ve kept journals fairly regularly since I was a college freshman.

The Pre­Digital Era

I started with cheap spiral notebooks and ballpoint pens, scrawling as fast as my hand would move, writing just about anywhere I could carry my notebook and a pen.

It’s 5 a.m. Somewhere

Upgrading to beautifully bound journals and fountain pens in grad school, I discovered “morning pages,” Julia Cameron’s tool from The Artist’s Way. Mine tend to be evening pages during the school year. In spite of modifying her guidelines, I find that writing some time every day works better than writing in the morning only occasionally.

Going Digital

I’ve tried keeping digital journals a few times with little success. I spend most of my computer­ journaling in editing­-mode rather than writing­mode, aiming for perfection rather than simply getting raw ideas from brain to page. Wireless internet has made this method even less workable, since the temptation to drop by the ‘net “for a second” is irresistible.

I’m Supposed to Do WHAT in my Journal?

I learned about visual journaling from Life Coach Kelly Pratt and the program book/journal she generously contributed to the swag bags at the 2010 Martha Beck Coaches’ Convention.

Kelly’s creation is beautiful, even if almost none of the pages are lined. And even if we’re encouraged to draw as well as write in it. Seriously?

OK, journals I get: write your feelings and maybe change your life.

Vision boards? I get those, too: cut out a bunch of pictures, stick them on a poster, and let the universe take over in manifesting your heart’s desires.

But draw in a journal – without lines – freehand? Like that’s gonna happen.

The whole idea was strangely irresistible, though, so I dropped in on Kelly’s follow­up call where she made visual journaling sound a lot less scary and kind of, well, fun. I’m an art supply junkie – love to look at them, scared to use them – and here was this woman giving me permission to play with them. Cool.

In a month, I filled a grand total of four two­-page spreads in my visual journal. Minimal output, but darned if the process isn’t doing just what Kelly predicted: it’s changing my life.

So now I’m a Visual Journaling Believer, and here are six reasons why you just might become one too:

You get to play with art supplies.

Absolutely no pressure to make art. Just play with cool stuff like beautiful­ looking, ­smelling, and ­feeling colored pencils, crayons, oil pastels, and pens. You can even get the page wet with water paint!

2 You have a place to put all of those pictures you cut out from magazines.

I needed a break from the vision board thing, but I still loved cutting out beautiful images. Stashing them in a folder felt wrong, so I happily incorporate them into my visual journal.

3 There are no spelling mistakes.

There are no mistakes, period. When you play with art supplies, you get to incorporate “mistakes” into the creation.

4 You get to use your brain differently.

My first sense was that the “art stuff” doesn’t take as much concentration as writing, but I soon realized that my brain was just working differently. I struggle to write when I can hear speaking or familiar tunes (no small thing, since I know about twenty gazillion tunes), but I find I can easily paint or draw no matter what sounds are around me.

5 You can fool people into thinking you’re really an artist.

My 5­-year-­old godson visited when my art supplies were out on the table, prompting him to ask, “Florence, are you becoming an artist?” To him, my “becoming an artist” was perfectly logical and ordinary, and my own inner 5­-year­-old is one board with that thought, too.

6 Visual journaling really does make magical­ feeling things happen.

One night last week I drew a small sailboat in my visual journal. During lunch the next day, without really knowing why, I looked up “sailboat” on craigslist. That evening, I made a deposit on a terrific little boat at a great price from nice people who live four miles from me on a street I’d never seen before. It’s the exact boat I’ve wanted since I made my first vision board two summers ago.

Just below the boat, I drew a book and a podium. I’m sure that writing the book and doing the book tour is going to happen just as easily and at exactly the right time.

What will you create in your visual journal?

Florence Moyer

Florence Moyer

Executive Coach & Career Strategist, Writer, Speaker, Choral Musician, Bunny Lover

Guest writer: Florence Moyer helps mission-driven individuals, teams and organizations make better decisions that lead to greater success.

Executive Coaching | Career Strategy | Leadership Development | On-boarding | Outplacement | Strategic Planning | Meeting Facilitation |

DiSC Certified | MBTI (Myers-Briggs) Certified | Gallup Strengths | VIA Survey of Character Strengths

Culture Happens Online Too

Culture Happens Online Too

Something a “simple” as a Zoom meeting has a culture and a sense of belonging (or not).

One of the ways I create a sense of belonging for folks across the gender spectrum in my Zoom calls is to show my pronouns with my name. This video tutorial shows how.

Zoom filters can be used to bring humor and a sense of play into the culture of a gathering on Zoom.

👉 What kind of culture and sense of belonging do you create on Zoom? How do you cultivate it?

Boxing In Belonging

Boxing In Belonging

Having belonging and culture together as this month’s theme caught my attention. The two are related but not the same thing. Questions are popping up in my head…

  • What about not belonging, how does that relate to culture?
  • Is culture shaped by belonging or belonging shaped by culture?
  • What is a simple monthly theme, prompting so many questions? 😂

Last night I remembered a story from my life that brought me back to thinking about Belonging + Culture…

When I was starting my first job as an engineer, my dad (also an engineer) took me aside and told me that I wouldn’t be taken seriously if I was wearing nail polish. At the time I had long nails that I always kept polished. I trusted his advice and stopped polishing my nails.  Because…  I wanted to belong. I wanted to fit the culture.

Fast forward to this morning…


I take my work seriously and all of me belongs – my engineering skills, my nail painting skills, my parenting skills, and all the rest.

My last question for today…

How do we shape culture that doesn’t box in what “belongs”?

Marcia Chadly

Marcia Chadly

vibrant. creative. ingenious. connection-loving.

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“I value the three paths we walk in life – self, relationship, and community – and the harmony they create.” – Marcia

I am a Business Consultant for organizations and entrepreneurs using the Mighty Networks platform to host online communities and learning. I am skilled at explaining technical concepts and options in an easy to understand manner, providing clarity and confidence to my clients.

I am particularly known for helping clients translate creative ideas into strategy and action plans to build a Mighty Network. A network that fits their unique situation and leads to increased impact and growth.

Specialities: Mighty Networks strategy, Mighty Networks design, Mighty Networks training, Zoom training, online technology training

Adapting to Change

Adapting to Change

Adapting to Change

I don’t know if you felt any different energy during the full harvest moon on Monday, but I know I sure did. There was a lot of energy around me, and there was a lot of wind all day. I also cried almost all day. I can only explain it as a great release that has been needed for some time now. I was emotional all day, yet I didn’t attach anything extra to it, and I just sat with and felt my emotions. I let them just be feelings this time, and I woke up Tuesday morning (with puffy eyes and all) feeling differently. Previously, I would have attached a lot of weight to feeling sad and heavy. I would’ve wondered why I was crying and created stories around it. But I’ve learned that they can just be feelings and bodily reactions of processing and releasing, and for that I am grateful.

Change is in the air once again. As we continue to navigate these tumultuous times, it may be time to bring some intentionality forth and put attention toward where you are heading, where you want to go, and determining if the two are in alignment. This pandemic created change for so many of us, and as we anticipated going “back to normal” things changed. Our lives changed; we changed in some way. We always do. Notice how things have changed, and how you have adapted to that change.

Reflect back five years ago. 

What was different? 

What is the same? 

What do you appreciate about the last five years?

This may be a good time to reset and renew intentions for the future, reassessing what’s most important to you and ensuring your actions are in alignment.

Consider:

What do you need to let go of?

What is no longer serving you? 

What do you want to renew?

What do you want to continue?

Something that has been showing up in many ways to me is the challenge of integrating or reintegrating desired behaviors. If you’ve let go of some routines over the last year and a half, remember that they likely will feel at least a little differently now, and that’s okay.

Focus on creating small yet consistent actions to reintroduce or introduce yourself to new actions and behaviors. Remember, it’s okay to start small. They may not feel like they did before, and be aware of your expectations and if you’re allowing outdated thought patterns and perspectives to put weight on the activity.

Start small and flex the muscle while you work back into it. Be open and integrate from a place of curiosity and self-kindness. Look for the possibility rather than the struggle and focus on consistency over perfection and the amount of time your spending on the behavior. Make it manageable for you.

New beginnings are here. Love and care for yourself and reassess what matters most to you right now, and focus on moving toward that.

Rachelle Niemann

Rachelle Niemann

Guide, Author, XChange Facilitator

Creative Type: Artist

compassionate. holder of space. heart-connected. calm.

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“I deeply understand how the support of a heart-centered and giving community can elevate us as individuals. When we are elevated, a ripple effect is created, and we all benefit. Creating these environments is my truest work.” – Rachelle

Creative, thoughtful, technically savvy, guide, holder of space, all about instilling inner peace and helping us all know self-love.

Focused on cultivating environments to support well-being, Rachelle is a guide, author of Breaking Free from the Hustle for Worthiness and XChange facilitator. Her facilitation, writing, and workshops are created to help lean into and proactively choose well-being as a way of being.

Learn More about Rachelle in the Village

Invent a New Word by Stephanie Foley

Invent a New Word by Stephanie Foley

  1. Create a deck of 20 three-letter syllables and shuffle them.
  2. Draw three cards.
  3. Arrange and re-arrange the three cards until you are happy with the result.
  4. Decide how to pronounce your new word.
  5. Give it a definition.
  6. Write it out as pictured above.

Then join us in Athena Village to share your new words!Join me in our Spark Salon (that’s a link!) to have access to all these fun activities (there will be 52 by year’s end!) articles in the Pam Grout Art & Soul Reloaded Series and receive notifications when new articles are released.Spark Salon hosts a monthly zoom on 3rd Thursdays to share inspiration from creative mentors such as Pam Grout, Julia Cameron, Robert Moss and more.  We’ll recharge our artist souls, ignite our imaginations, and remember our creative magic! Click HERE for details about our next event when we’ll discuss Pockets of Time, Showing Up & G.U.T.S.

The spring equinox is a great time to set or reset your intentions. You can review your recent actions and ways of being perhaps with a new lens of awakening, awareness, and hope, and you can decide how you want to be moving forward. Keeping what is serving you and clearing out what is not.I set a lot of goals and intentions at the beginning of the year, yet I have recently noticed that I have become so preoccupied with perceiving what wasn’t going to happen in the future that I became paralyzed from taking action in the present. Looking through a new lens, a reminder and/or mantra I am using to remind myself to stay present is, “Today is the day that matters.” “Just do this workout/meditation/action today.” I’m letting go of trying to commit to things long-term where I have allowed myself to be overcome with worrying about not being able to commit, and instead I’m working on committing to what I can control and commit to today.Perhaps take the day or weekend to notice your behaviors and your inner states of being, and as you notice them determine what you want to carry forward and what needs some spring cleaning. Allow the change of the seasons to inspire you and help you reconnect with yourself, your heart, and your desires.Perhaps consider and journal or meditate with loving-kindness for yourself around:

  • How do I want to be daily?
  • Where can I notice I am in alignment?
  • Where can I adjust to being more in alignment?
  • What can I notice about this?

And if it’s helpful for you perhaps every day you can ask: “What actions can I take today to support how I want to be?”There are new hopes and possibilities available every day; however, spring can provide new perspectives and inspiration to come forth. How might you be inspired by this change of seasons?

Stephanie Foley

VILLAGE COUNCIL MEMBER and VILLAGE MUSE

Stephanie is the guide within Soul Sparks,  Soul Sparks is a muse-connecting co-creative think tank. Our mission is to help you ignite your soul sparks, re-wild your inner child, unleash your creative magic, and re-enchant your life.

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