Positive thinking. šŸ‘šŸ» or šŸ‘ŽšŸ»

Positive thinking. šŸ‘šŸ» or šŸ‘ŽšŸ»

Photo by Nathan Dumlao on Unsplash

I just received an article fromĀ Tara McMullinĀ (one of the few ppl I make time to read). Tara was on a rant. People in a parenting thread in the ā€œtwitterverseā€ had responded to a parent wanting to find a way to add some creative time into their parenting schedule in aĀ ā€œā€¦ not at all helpful. In fact, it was hurtful.ā€Ā way.

I am definitely a GLASS-HALF-FULL person. But I too have bumped into the issues that Tara talks about in her article. And I know that denying reality doesn’t give you the power to overcome it…
[Read More in the Village]

[Read Tara’s full article on MEDIUM:Ā Parents Deserve More Than Positive Thinking]

Becoming Still through the Season

Becoming Still through the Season

by Rachelle Niemann
Here we are again, another spring equinox upon us in the northern hemisphere. Our world continues to change in new ways every day. I’m grateful that each change of the season offers a chance to pause and evaluate my thoughts, feelings, and my behaviors. Especially spring, when the light and dark are coming into balance, and there is an essence of renewal in the air.

This year, I think I’m going to take a bit longer pause than just a few moments on the equinox. I’m feeling like a longer pause is necessary to really catch my breath and find enough stillness that will stay present with me even as the world around me continues to change at this rapid pace. I’m leaning into the idea that spring lasts for three months, and plants take time to emerge and become. They create their stable and healthy state before producing their fruits. I can really use a longer pause to recognize and breathe into what is and become still and stable there so that I can leap forward into the next season or thing or moment.

I have found myself (and heard many others) trying to hold onto the past while also waiting for the future to arrive. When we are always in this state of desiring to have something back and trying to anticipate or wait for the future to arrive, we miss the present moment. We miss noticing our experience, who we are, and identifying if we are showing up how we want to be.

This spring, I invite you to take some time to pause and reflect with me. We’ve all experienced grief and loss throughout this pandemic, and it has also provided the opportunity for us to rethink and evaluate our values, our identity, and our behaviors. Pause and notice if you are in alignment with your values. Maybe even evaluate if your values are still aligned with your present state. Change and transition are inevitable, and this includes who we want to be and how we want to show up in the world. Try letting go of your perceived ā€œnormalā€ to engage with the reality of the present. Shed what no longer serves you. Plant the seeds of new beginnings, feed and nurture them, and allow time for them to germinate, grow, and flourish. It’s time to align with calmness and inner peace so that we can endure and adapt with the rapid pace of change happening outside our control.

Pause, breathe, become still, really still, and notice what’s there.

FromĀ rachelleniemann.com/blog

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling by Florence Moyer

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling by Florence Moyer

a page from my journal working through “my people” – my ideal clients” right: my client B4
(scroll to the bottom of this article to see a younger me explaining why i love visual journaling)

“Years ago I was deep into my practice of Visual Journaling – personally, and professionally.
In addition to using my journal to work through personal and business ideas, issues and thoughts, i was designing journals for others, including a journal for all the coaches attending Martha Beck’s Coaches’ conferences.”

 

I first learned of visual journaling fromĀ LisaĀ SonoraĀ – from whom I took my first ever online course. Ā Her work in the book THE CREATIVE ENTREPRENEUR and visual journaling was the inspiration for the direction I’ve taken my private coaching practice and group work with entrepreneurs and creatives.

Flash forward. Ā Covid. Uprisings. Life gets in the way. Ā My personal practice of journaling is set aside.

But lately I’ve been feeling the call of creativity. Ā And then the idea of visual journaling started to pop back up here and there … I need to pay attention.

šŸ‘ˆšŸ» is a photo of the journal I designed for the 2010 conference. The one pictured here is well loved and I received many kudos for this little book… I used mine to capture my thoughts and ideas as well. šŸ‘‡šŸ»

 

 

One of the emails I received post-conference was from sister coach, Florence Moyer. Ā It said

I’m having a blast with my visual journal and I just posted on my blog about some of the things I’m learning from it. Hope you enjoy it and that I’m representing your ideas well.
– Flo

Her post did indeed represent my ideas well, which were Lisa’s ideas.

(Oh, and by the way, it was inn 2010 atĀ LisaĀ Sonora‘s creativity retreat in Mexico thatĀ joyĀ and I first met! We’ve never been in the same physical space again, but a life time friendship and partnership was formed! All around visual journaling)

Without Further Ado, Here’s Flo’s Blog Post from August of 2010

Playing with Art Supplies:
Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling

Playing with Art Supplies: Six Cool Things About Visual Journaling

ByĀ Florence Moyer

I’ve kept journals fairly regularly since I was a college freshman.

The PreĀ­Digital Era

I started with cheap spiral notebooks and ballpoint pens, scrawling as fast as my hand would move, writing just about anywhere I could carry my notebook and a pen.

It’s 5 a.m. Somewhere

Upgrading to beautifully bound journals and fountain pens in grad school, I discovered ā€œmorning pages,ā€ Julia Cameron’s tool fromĀ The Artist’s Way. Mine tend to beĀ eveningĀ pages during the school year. In spite of modifying her guidelines, I find that writingĀ someĀ time every day works better than writing in the morning only occasionally.

Going Digital

I’ve tried keeping digital journals a few times with little success. I spend most of my computerĀ­ journaling in editingĀ­-mode rather than writingĀ­mode, aiming for perfection rather than simply getting raw ideas from brain to page. Wireless internet has made this method even less workable, since the temptation to drop by the ā€˜net ā€œfor a secondā€ is irresistible.

I’m Supposed to DoĀ WHATĀ in my Journal?

I learned about visual journaling from Life Coach Kelly Pratt and the program book/journal she generously contributed to the swag bags at the 2010 Martha Beck Coaches’ Convention.

Kelly’s creation is beautiful, even if almost none of the pages are lined. And even if we’re encouraged toĀ drawĀ as well as write in it. Seriously?

OK,Ā journalsĀ I get: write your feelings and maybe change your life.

Vision boards? I get those, too: cut out a bunch of pictures, stick them on a poster, and let the universe take over in manifesting your heart’s desires.

ButĀ draw in a journal – without lines – freehand? Like that’s gonna happen.

The whole idea was strangely irresistible, though, so I dropped in on Kelly’s followĀ­up call where she made visual journaling sound a lot less scary and kind of, well, fun. I’m an art supply junkie – love to look at them, scared to use them – and here was this woman giving me permission to play with them. Cool.

In a month, I filled a grand total of four twoĀ­-page spreads in my visual journal. Minimal output, but darned if theĀ processĀ isn’t doing just what Kelly predicted: it’s changing my life.

So now I’m aĀ Visual Journaling Believer, and here are six reasons why you just might become one too:

1Ā You get to play with art supplies.

Absolutely no pressure to make art. Just play with cool stuff like beautifulĀ­ looking, Ā­smelling, and Ā­feeling colored pencils, crayons, oil pastels, and pens. You can even get the page wet with water paint!

2 You have a place to put all of those pictures you cut out from magazines.

I needed a break from the vision board thing, but I still loved cutting out beautiful images. Stashing them in a folder felt wrong, so I happily incorporate them into my visual journal.

3 There are no spelling mistakes.

There are no mistakes, period. When you play with art supplies, you get to incorporate ā€œmistakesā€ into the creation.

4 You get to use your brain differently.

My first sense was that the ā€œart stuffā€ doesn’t take as much concentration as writing, but I soon realized that my brain was just working differently. I struggle to write when I can hear speaking or familiar tunes (no small thing, since I know about twenty gazillion tunes), but I find I can easily paint or draw no matter what sounds are around me.

5 You can fool people into thinking you’re really an artist.

My 5Ā­-year-Ā­old godson visited when my art supplies were out on the table, prompting him to ask,Ā ā€œFlorence, are you becoming an artist?ā€Ā To him, my ā€œbecoming an artistā€ was perfectly logical and ordinary, and my own inner 5Ā­-yearĀ­-old is one board with that thought, too.

6 Visual journaling really does make magicalĀ­ feeling things happen.

One night last week I drew a small sailboat in my visual journal. During lunch the next day, without really knowing why, I looked up ā€œsailboatā€ on craigslist. That evening, I made a deposit on a terrific little boat at a great price from nice people who live four miles from me on a street I’d never seen before. It’s the exact boat I’ve wanted since I made my first vision board two summers ago.

Just below the boat, I drew a book and a podium. I’m sure that writing the book and doing the book tour is going to happen just as easily and at exactly the right time.

What will you create in your visual journal?

Florence Moyer

Florence Moyer

Executive Coach & Career Strategist, Writer, Speaker, Choral Musician, Bunny Lover

Guest writer:Ā Florence MoyerĀ helps mission-driven individuals, teams and organizations make better decisions that lead to greater success.

Executive Coaching | Career Strategy | Leadership Development | On-boarding | Outplacement | Strategic Planning | Meeting Facilitation |

DiSC Certified | MBTI (Myers-Briggs) Certified | Gallup Strengths | VIA Survey of Character Strengths

Culture Happens Online Too

Culture Happens Online Too

Something a ā€œsimpleā€ as a Zoom meeting has a culture and a sense of belonging (or not).

One of the ways I create a sense of belonging for folks across the gender spectrum in my Zoom calls is to show my pronouns with my name. This video tutorial shows how.

Zoom filters can be used to bring humor and a sense of play into the culture of a gathering on Zoom.

šŸ‘‰ What kind of culture and sense of belonging do you create on Zoom? How do you cultivate it?

Boxing In Belonging

Boxing In Belonging

Having belonging and culture together as this month’s theme caught my attention.Ā The two are related but not the same thing. Questions are popping up in my head…

  • What about not belonging, how does that relate to culture?
  • Is culture shaped by belonging or belonging shaped by culture?
  • What is a simple monthly theme, prompting so many questions? šŸ˜‚

Last night I remembered a storyĀ from my life that brought me back to thinking about Belonging + Culture…

When I was starting my first job as an engineer, my dad (also an engineer) took me aside and told me that I wouldn’t be taken seriously if I was wearing nail polish. At the time I had long nails that I always kept polished. I trusted his advice and stopped polishing my nails. Ā Because… Ā I wanted to belong. I wanted to fit the culture.

Fast forward to this morning…


I take my work seriously andĀ all of me belongs – my engineering skills, my nail painting skills, my parenting skills, and all the rest.

My last question for today…

How do we shape culture that doesn’t box in what ā€œbelongsā€?

Marcia Chadly

Marcia Chadly

vibrant. creative. ingenious. connection-loving.

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ā€œI value the three paths we walk in life – self, relationship, and community – and the harmony they create.ā€ – Marcia

I am a Business Consultant for organizations and entrepreneurs using the Mighty Networks platform to host online communities and learning. I am skilled at explaining technical concepts and options in an easy to understand manner, providing clarity and confidence to my clients.

I am particularly known for helping clients translate creative ideas into strategy and action plans to build a Mighty Network. A network that fits their unique situation and leads to increased impact and growth.

Specialities: Mighty Networks strategy, Mighty Networks design, Mighty Networks training, Zoom training, online technology training